Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Here is The Church, Here is The Steeple, Open The Doors And There's All The People.

Today's rant is a little churchy. So if you are not interested in being preached too, then this is actually aimed right at ya'.
My high school was considered the "rich" school. Many of the wealthy neighborhoods in the area happened to be in the school boundaries. So, whenever people from other schools would find out what school I was attending I would instantly be labeled a rich snob. You ask, "what's wrong with being rich?". Nothing. BUT, we were not rich. In fact we were the opposite of rich. What's the word? Oh yeah, poor white trash. As I think back, only one of my friends families could truly be labeled as rich. The rest of us had sufficient for our needs, but not a lot more than that.
So I am not complaining about our financial status. The point I am trying to make is that as far as the people not from our school were concerned we were all rich snobs. It's not that the label was unfounded, there were a few rich snobs in our school. But it was not fair to classify the masses, or the school, that way because of a few individuals.
Here comes the preachy part. If you believe in God, Allah, Buddha or any other deity that teaches love for your fellow man then how can you call yourself a true believer and judge another? Especially those of another religion where they too worship.
Rampant in the news are stories of terrorists and suicide bombers. People killing and dying in the name of Allah. Just because these individuals are Muslim, does that make all Muslims terrorists? If you answered "yes" to this question, then you should probably stop reading and hurry to your clan meeting. For the rest of you, you know that the Islamic religion is one of peace and faith. To judge the religion because of the actions of its followers is wrong.
Allegations of sexual abuse have been filed against several Catholic priests. Even when the charges are true, does that mean all Catholic priests are child molesters? Does it mean the Catholic church encourages and teaches child molesting? Catholicism teaches faith in Jesus Christ. To judge Catholics because of the misdeeds of a few leaders is unchristian.

I belong to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, yep, I'm a Mormon. I am sure you have all met a Mormon that offended, annoyed, judged, or otherwise displeased you. Especially if you have ever lived near Utah. It is even possible to find a whole group of such Mormons. For those of you that do not know anything about Mormons, we believe, like all other Christians, that Jesus is our Savior and that we must live his teachings to return to live with him. I am not ignorant to the fact that there are an unfortunately large number of members of the church that do not practice the teachings we believe. This does not mean that all Mormons are this way. Quite the opposite. I have been to Mormon churches in both hemispheres and on either side of the planet. I have lived as far away from Salt Lake as possible. The only thing that remains the same in all these places is that the church teaches of Christ and his gospel. In my experience the gossip, judgments, hypocrisy, one-upmanship, and all the other issues that are seen amongst too many Mormons are typically isolated to the communities with a large percentage of Mormons. It's the law of averages. The more of a specific group you have in an area, the more prevalent the "exceptions" become. Much the same way you will find proof for racial stereotypes in neighborhoods largely populated by that race. It doesn't make the stereotype true, it just means there are people that live up to (or down to) that image. This is not me giving an excuse for people to act this way, it is just an observation I have made.
I am not perfect, by any stretch of the word. But I believe in Jesus Christ and his teachings. I do my best to follow him, to be a good person and to love everyone. I know what you are thinking right now, and like I said, I'm not perfect! But don't judge me and my beliefs because of someone else's actions. Especially someone that the only thing we may have in common is our membership in the same church, and one of us obviously isn't living up to our beliefs.
A related complaint, I know many former Mormons, baptized members that no longer go to church. I do not judge anyone for their decisions. Out of five children I am the only one that has chosen to continue going to church. I don't love my brothers any less for this. But I do have an issue with someone that blames the actions of others for their decisions. Believe, or don't believe, that decision is up to you. But own it. If you truly believe in something then you cannot be swayed by the actions of some ignorant people. And to say a religion and all its followers is bad, based on the actions of some of its members, is as un-Christlike as those members that are acting against the teachings of their religion. Judge not, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. (Matthew 7: 1-2)

So bash me, hate me, do what you want with me. But remember this is my rant and nobody made you read it. And just because my words may anger you, doesn't make them any less true. I love you, well, most of you. Again, I'm not the perfect one. =)

Cya in 7

Next Week: "007 License To Breed"

6 comments:

  1. Well said. To be perfectly honest, sometimes it's hard not to judge others. Especially people who appear to personify what you're talking about: claiming to believe one thing, but living another. So, thanks for the reminder.


    BTW, have you ever seen the "seriously, so blessed" blog. It's a made up mormon spoof blog that is a perfect example of your rant... except it's not real, so I find it hilarious.

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  2. Hmmm. Interesting how no body commented on this as opposed to your rant last week. I think you hit a nerve. I just got into a conversation online with someone about a half hour ago about this same topic. I put some thoughts in her head she had never really thought of before and she realized she never believed the gospel in the first place so it's was easy to let it go. However it was easier to justify her leaving to herself and her family by saying it was because of the people that hurt her or judged others. Her family would take it harder if she just truly didn't believe. Interesting.

    Cam: I love that blog and have told KG about. It makes me laugh!

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  3. I think you are a little hit with this one KG. It's your related complaint at the end that is a little off, I like all the other stuff. Here's my two cents.
    You say, "I do not judge anyone for their decisions....."
    Then you have a big but here when you say,
    "But I do have an issue with someone that blames the actions of others for their decisions. Believe, or don't believe, that decision is up to you. But own it. If you truly believe in something, then you cannot be swayed by the actions of some ignorant people. "
    I don't think we should be too hard on people who have left the church because of the actions of it's people. We have a huge responsibility as church members to be Christ-like. It's not only their problem if they are offended. It is OUR problem. Especially if a testimony has not been deeply rooted or developed yet. We are our brother's keeper. We are accountable to those we offend. So I say, let's not to be too harsh by judging them, but let's remember to be sensitive in our daily actions and pray that we never offend someone so much that they turn away from the church. The Lord will most definitely hold us accountable."

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  4. Good point amanda. I don't judge them, nor does KG. What I took it to mean, or speaking for myself and my many interactions with this, is that I don't want to be judged based on people that have hurt you in the past, or continue to hurt you. They are hurting you because they aren't kind people not because they are catholic or Mormon or whatever. I also just get tired of the constant bashing. They can't speak unless they are bashing their former religion. It makes it seem like they are just trying to convince themselves of their decision. Don't really care what religion anyone is, I just don't want ANY religion continually bashed. There are so many other more intersting things to talk about and be positive about.

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  5. Oh, I gotcha. And I totally agree with you. My misunderstanding. :)

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  6. I'd just like to add that I can think of six examples off the top of my head where I have met complete strangers that have wrongly judged me because of my religion. I won't share them all but I will share this one that happened two years ago in CA. Bella and I were sitting in a hot tub at a family resort with a guy and his son resort and we started talking about where are you from, what do you do, etc. He works with youth, etc etc and tells me all about his ministry etc etc and as soon as he asks me what church I go to and I tell him, he freezes. I want to say he even backed up a little bit. After that he didn't ask any more questions or care to talk to me anymore. Needless to say I got the hint and Bella and I got out of the hot tub. It was like he misunderstood me or something. I said I was a Mormon. I didn't say I was the devil incarnate.

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